Your Boundaries are NOT Brick Walls
- Andy Robinson
- May 6
- 2 min read
In today’s fast-paced world, maintaining work-life balance is essential for both personal and professional well-being. However, how we perceive and establish our boundaries can make a significant difference. Instead of viewing boundaries as harsh, stark, and semi-permanent brick walls, consider them beautiful, admirable hedges.
Hedges are:
Beautiful: They enhance the landscape of your life, adding aesthetic value and a sense of calm.
Cared for: Just like hedges need regular trimming and attention, boundaries require ongoing care and adjustments to remain effective.
Prideful: Well-maintained hedges are something to be proud of, reflecting your commitment to balance and self-care.
Appreciated by Others: When others see the beauty and care in your boundaries, they are more likely to respect and value them.
Benefits of Hedge-like Boundaries:
Flexibility: Hedges can be shaped and molded over time, allowing for adaptability in your personal and professional life.
Natural Growth: Boundaries should grow and evolve naturally with your changing needs and circumstances.
Visibility: While hedges clearly define space, they are not impenetrable, allowing for healthy interaction and mutual respect.
Key Points to Remember:
Boundaries need care: Regularly assess and adjust your boundaries to ensure they serve your current needs.
Healthy boundaries are admired: When maintained well, they enhance your overall well-being and are respected by others.
Flexibility is key: Allow your boundaries to grow and change as you do.
Having boundaries doesn’t mean being cold, hard, and uncaring. Boundaries are not an unfeeling brick wall. As you protect your needs and limits today, visualize your boundary as a strong, soft, warm green hedge around you. This hedge offers you protection as well as warmth and beauty to those with whom you interact. You can quietly refuse in the kindest of ways.
By viewing your boundaries as hedges rather than brick walls, you cultivate an environment of respect, adaptability, and growth. This perspective not only benefits you but also positively influences those around you.
Call to Action:
What are three things you can do THIS WEEK to replace your brick wall boundaries with beautiful, well-tended boundaries, enabling a well-balanced, purposeful, and meaningful personal and professional life?
Andy Robinson, Executive Coach
239-285-5575
"Helping CEO's and executives maximize their influence and impact."
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